Yep if you are small no "wonder wand" in the world will makes you attractive for a woman as size matters, and nothing will change that at this moment, if you are not attractive, model like build,tall,fit build etc as above no girl will be interested in you as a partner maybe as a friend if you are lucky..
I used to be a alpha and was introduced to femdom by girlfriends and it turned me on so much I switched,as the years have gone on I`m almost completely beta now,and a big fan of cuckolding especially creampie clean up and being watched wanking